This is how you find yourself.
Hi, I’m Tiffany.
I was raised to believe that my value as a woman, my career, my independence, and my mental health were less important than my children, but my children would not exist without me. I fundamentally believe that our children need their mothers, but I also believe we, as women, need ourselves and that is what my work is all about.
Being a mother requires being honest with ourselves about which needs can be met through motherhood and which needs must be met through the continued development of self.
Exploring the impact work and motherhood have on our sense of self.
I spent the first few years of motherhood fighting to keep my career afloat while silently struggling with postpartum depression. I eventually let go of my corporate career, but quickly found myself mothering at the expense of myself. Motherhood kickstarted my journey toward self-discovery and I have made it my mission to support other women in reclaiming themselves, not in spite of but because of their kids.
What does it mean to be true to yourself?
I have mothered every which way over the years and the thing that fills me most and allows me to mother best is my independence, the ability to carve out time and space to think and work and create independent of my kids. This isn’t about ‘working’ versus ‘staying home’ but more about staying true to myself. And yet, I am constantly torn between pursuing work and simultaneously managing life with small humans. I believe that the best any of us can do is look inside of ourselves and determine who we want to be and then work to bring that version of you to life. I partner with individuals and organizations seeking to find clarity and understanding and provide the framework and strategies to create a tangible roadmap for personal and professional success.
If I could teach women anything it would be to be unapologetically themselves, no matter what.
Empowering women to transform their lives through my work and my words.
After leaving my corporate career behind to be more available for my kids, I found myself mothering at the expense of myself before making it my mission to support other women in navigating life, work, and motherhood.
Self-ish Motherhood.
I believe being a mother requires being honest with ourselves about which needs can be met through motherhood and which needs must be met through the continued development of self. I push at the edges of societal expectations and encourage women to know and understand themselves so they can mother from a place of fullness of self (aka self-ish-ly) rather than the other way around.
